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Life is about letting go, while staying in control; I learned this lesson during a pull ceremony. Pull ceremony consisted in: getting temporally pierced in the chest, hooks attached to piercing, the hooks attached to twinge, connected to the ceiling, and then you lean back at your level of comfort or discomfort that doesn’t completely freak you out. I was most comfortable standing completely straight up and only swaying back slightly while holding on to a chair next to me. Then one of the faciilaters moved my chair away as he stood behind me and helped me safely and bravely lean back. After he left, I started to work on safely letting myself let go and lean back.  As every massage therapist I have ever has will tell you letting and letting myself relax and let go of my control, which how I often have as a governing force in so much of the rest of my life…. So this was a big break through for me.

What Makes it a sub culture
BDSM
Leather Community

Hanky Code

Show some respect
WoodHull Foundation

WoodHull Sexual Freedom Summit

Center for Sex & Culture

Bussinesses
Wicked Gounds
Good Vibrations
Safe Word
Kink B&B

It is good for you
Health benefits
Mental health
More on Mental Health

If you want to be a member
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Society of Janus
Local Dundeon (SF)
Some safety basics
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